Hon, anything for you. I'm glad to hear you are coping with it all, and one thing I know that keeps a person going in such times is friends to help us along the way. I will always deeply appreciate the friends who helped me last year. And I second what you said about this family being wonderful to us all!
We are indeed a brotherhood/sistership community!
I was deeply sorry to know of your friend's passing, and I think too she would be grateful for the trust fund idea for her son. You truely are a "Friend".
Stay well yourself, and hope to hear from you when you're ready.
God Bless you sweetie.