Well,I wouldn't call you scum.
You can tell all of us,now you need to tell HER. At least about the contintions,the few things you need to have go your way or will spend the rest of your married life miserable and wondering about the road not taken.
Religion and children,I can relate to how that can screw up an apparently promising relationship.
Best advice about marriage,if you have any doubt,and are not absolutly convinced you want this woman 'til death,etc. then don't go through with it.But don't trust me,I think G. Gordon Liddy said something to that effect.
Lonliness sucks,but not nearly as bad as being stuck with a woman killing your dreams.
Dont think about it in terms of "the other woman" as the universe often inflicts these "feast or famine" situations upon us. Stick to solving the problem in terms of do you love this woman you are engaged to enough to live happily ever after?
__________________
May've been the losing side. I'm still not convinved it was the wrong one.
|
